My wife got a new hair style and I cant stand it. ?

Honestly, I can't get it up to make love since she did this. I was just curious, has anyone else ever experienced this or is it just me? I admit that our fire isnt what it was when we first got married but this new look has really turned me off. We have talked about it and she insist that she likes it and planning to keep it like that. You think she may have another man who is encouraging her new look?My wife got a new hair style and I cant stand it. ?
Oh, please.





Any man who can't have sex with a woman JUST because of her HAIR STYLE is probably very gay, indeed. So if you're not gay, you're exaggerating with a goal in mind.





Admit it--you're flailing about for ANY EXCUSE to hang on your not being ';into'; her anymore.





What--has she gotten a bit old looking for you? Or do you have a girlfriend on the side? Funny how you accuse her of having ';another man';--is that your guilty conscience working overtime to justify your conduct?





I don't think you're being straightforward, here. If you don't love her anymore, say so, don't blame her HAIR STYLE. My wife got a new hair style and I cant stand it. ?
I think you are making a issue and you should be checking out your own sexuality. Why would you blame your wife for wanting to change her hair style? This seems like a terrible excuse not to make love.





If you are having problems in the bedroom..her hair style is not the first place to check





It seems you have issues of trust..so find out if you are the only man


in her life and if you still are just bite the bullet and forget about


her hair style and do your job as a husband.
Looks are important with relationships, sadly, but can't you look past the ';bad'; haircut? Hair isn't what keeps you in love with your wife. What's so bad about her new hair style that you are feeling ';different'; towards her? She's still the same woman you fell in love with and married, so why let a new hair style get in the way of that?
It's possible that there is someone else on the side, as one of the signs of cheating is suddenly changing your style or making sudden improvements like change in clothes. But this doesn't mean she is cheating, please don't jump to conclusions. The most important part of a relationship is communication, so you need to tell her how you feel and see if you two can come to a compromise.
Not likely that will she will have another man.


Having just cutting my new hairstyle and I actually kind of liking it, then some one tell me they hate it and make me change it sound pretty bad to me. Probably give me an urge for a whole day. If you love your wife for who she is, then hair doesn't matter. If you sex life isn't working so well. Talk to her, tell her how you feel about her hair and how it affecting your sexuality with her.
Do you want your wife telling you that she doesn't find you attractive..it's obvious that your not in love with your wife and if thats the case then leave so she can find someone who does love her...





Did you ever think that maybe she wanted a new look and that it has nothing to do with another man....








Why would you care if there was someone else?you don't love her.
Mr. Business ';Traveler'; indeed....You sound quite shallow I'm afraid. Let her be who she wants to be, cut her hair like she wants to cut it and you need to decide how you are going to pull your marriage back together. ';Through good times and bad'; was your vow. Marriages take work and from my perspective a traveling husband is as good as no husband. You're going to have to prove you are worth waiting for and criticizing her looks isn't going to cut it....
I f you really don't like her hair style i would just sit her down and say i not a big fan of your hair, don't give her a big lecture on how you don't like it. If you don't want to do that just ask her politely if she could style her hair a little bit different, e.g having it up if it is long or straightening it if it is short, my hair is short so i have to straighten it she could also put her hair up in a quiff type on style. (if you don't know what a Quiff is, have a look at this picture:





http://a.bebo.com/app-image/6558582999/6鈥?/a>





Hope this helps,





Mnnii
No, I think she just like the way her hair looks.Really nothing you can do about.I don't know you, but your words make you seem shallow.I think you need to get over it.If you really love her, looks, hair for that matter, shouldn't matter.
There are obviously some deep underlying issues here. It's not about the haircut. You're being very shallow and I suggest marriage counseling for the both of you. Your poor wife! She should be able to look however and you should still find her sexually appealing!
You say the fire hasn't been the same, well maybe she thought the same thing, and felt a new look might spice it up a bit. Try to get used to it, and think of other things about her that turn you on.
I don't know about another man, but if you don't like the haircut, how about telling her? Or, if you really want to get the message to her, take someone else to your communal bed while she's in it.
lol no


its like not having the same likes and dislikes


make her buy a wig or something,and dont you just love your wife for her personality or something?
sounds like you dont havent open lines of communication with your wife


you need to work on that rather than jumping to conclusions and while your at it help around the house
if you really loved her u would u would let her keep it that way. think about her personality more than her appearance. good luck!
why dont you go out with your mate and your wife and get ur mate too complament on her hair or some thing on the lines of that or just get realy drunk and tell her.
This is not grounds for divorce. Although your ultimate Q may be.
Wow a hairstyle shouldn't inable you to love your wife! Are you sure your not the cheater? Thinkers are doers!
Smack her in the face, pull her hair out, and feed it to her.





im kidding, just tell her you dont like it
i guess she just really likes it.
afraid so man she atleast has 2 or 3 other boyfriends sorry for your bad luck
while shes sleeping, shave her head bald with a silent razor
wait till shes asleep and mess it up. But hey that's just me
whats so bad about it?
is it really that bad?


what does it look like